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By Abdulkadir Rafiat HERE IS A LIST OF THINGS YOU NEED TO TEACH YOUR CHILD(REN) AT EARLY AGE: 1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles. 2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself. 3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband' 4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves. 5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult. 6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child. 7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values. 8: It...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat Dear ladies,             Learn how to express love to your partner.  some ladies think that the only way to express love to  a man is by having sex with him; that is why some ladies do not have anything to offer a man  except sex. When Men sometimes buy gift for their girlfriends then they will say’’ "I will pay you back this night by giving you a hot sex." . Its very funny. Sex is not a prove of love. Don't use sex to prove that you love a man. As a lady, you can prove that you love a man  in the following ways: 1. Surprise him with  gifts if you have the money. 2. Take him out for lunch and pay his bills. It is not bad at all. 3. Send him some love text messages occasionally. 4. Call him daily. 5. Occasionally you can cook a delicious meal for him, but not everyday like a housewife. 6. You can also help him financially when he is broke. 7. Take him out for shopping, you will not die. 8. Pra...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat Dear Individual, It’s been over eleven years since you raped me, yet it often feels as if no time has passed at all. The memory of the weight of your body pinning mine down, the scent of your sickening sweet cologne, the rough sensation of your unshaven face rubbing my cheeks and neck raw as you slammed your hips into me…these are things I cannot forget. You see, when you raped me, you didn’t just violate me, you stole something I was not yet ready to give freely. You didn’t just take away my innocence, you forced your depravity on me, then accused me of being a poor lover because I was not “into it”. You laughed in my face when I told you to stop while pushing you away, and insisted that you knew I wanted you because I had “flirted” with you just hours before (newsflash: not every woman that looks your way is flirting with you, and if she were in fact flirting, that does not equal an open door to the most intimate part of her body). At the time, I was tr...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat Hi guys,         It's been a while here; I can not swim. I never learned it. I almost drowned once before. Now I can not go into the water without panic.  it is not even the water. I wash with it, too. these are the circumstances. if I have no ground under my feet and I'm in the cold water.