Is it normal i can't get a boyfriend even though i'm attractive?

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By Abdulkadir Rafiat



Hey Guys,

         Basically i'm in my 20's and i can't get a boyfriend (technically in the past, i've had boyfriends not all that long or serious).The last one which I thought would be serious, he didn't care about me, blocked my number and later for someone else and never spoke to me again.
           
           I just feel like everyone is ashamed and embarrassed of me or something i'm struggling alot in life but this is something which has been lately getting me down because i don't really get it, its hard to show this via text and with the type of post i'm writing, but most people who meet me say they think i'm a pretty attractive girl get called cute alot, but no one seems to want me.

              I can be quite fussy because i want someone i'm attracted to and feel chemistry with and that rarely happens lately, 2 guys i was seeing despite me feeling strongly about them both said they didn't want relationships yet after me got with girls they were in relationships with, i feel something is wrong with me, and i don't know what it is, i never have truly had a guy care about me or want a relationship with me, and its very lonely.

             I've had guys say they're mad about me but always end up ghosting or getting bored and nothing ever comes from it, just don't really get it anymore or why no one seems to want me, i have alot of interests and things to talk about, i'm not clingy.. or pushing them away just being chilled happy (even tho deep down i'm not i don't show i'm sad to people) but still no one even wants to give me a chance?

             Yet i see girls way less attractive with guys who wouldnt look twice at me, i just don't know what i'm doing wrong, i have a big personality and lots to say and talk about but something doesn't seem to be right.

 Advice me in the comment section below 👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇
NOTE: PLEASE I'M NOT DESPERATE, I'M JUST WONDERING WHY... 

Comments

  1. Anonymous28 July 2019 at 19:50

    It is very normal but if you keep seeing it as a big deal, it'll affect your psyche.. eventually you'll see someone that shares your interests or actually wants to talk to you. My advice for now is to get something doing that takes your mind off this, like keeping up with a movie series or going to the gym, confidence stems from within and from what you said, you actually lack that so build it up.

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