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By Abdulkadir Rafiat        Consequences of pride in a marriage could be irreversible. If someone tells you that he/she has a perfect marriage, just know right away that he/she is a great liar.Couples fight and fight badly for that matter, but it's the ability to revise ones stand, communicate with respect, and be honest with each other, that determines the survival of any marital relationship.         If you remove pride and arrogance in your marital relationship, the marriage is already 90% promising, stable, peaceful and can thus, stand the test of time. Invest in your marriage through giving, talking and compromising here and there. Your business as a stakeholder should be what to do to make your home peaceful and stable for you, your spouse, and your children's enjoyment.         Stop running to 3rd parties who equally have their own challenges they are probably hiding and managing. You may end up getting nothing pos...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat Hey Guys,          I make with guys but most of them end up telling me they are in a relationship or the other after I must have fallen in love with them and I do not want to make it seem like I want to snatch them from their girl.          If you love each other but he/she is not single, do you pray and wait for a chance that he/she breaks up and come to you? Or what would you do?  Use the comment section below 👇👇👇👇

By Abdulkadir Rafiat Hey Guys,           Basically i'm in my 20's and i can't get a boyfriend (technically in the past, i've had boyfriends not all that long or serious).The last one which I thought would be serious, he didn't care about me, blocked my number and later for someone else and never spoke to me again.                        I just feel like everyone is ashamed and embarrassed of me or something i'm struggling alot in life but this is something which has been lately getting me down because i don't really get it, its hard to show this via text and with the type of post i'm writing, but most people who meet me say they think i'm a pretty attractive girl get called cute alot, but no one seems to want me.              I can be quite fussy because i want someone i'm attracted to and feel chemistry with and that rarely happens lately, 2 guys i was seein...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat Hey Guys,               I've anger issue, easily annoyed, curses a lot and have occasional dark, disturbing fantasy I would love to inflict on certain people.               However, When I am around friends and strangers, I am not being my true self. I act very nice, friendly and happy-go-lucky. The facade is convincing to the point some of them treated me like a doormat and a loser. I do this because I know I'll have no friends and they'll hate me if they ever know my true personality.              One day, this one dipshit who occasionally disturbed me went too far. He humiliated me and made me look like a fool in front of many people there because of this sweet person facade I pulled off. I can't take it anymore for faking myself and raged in front of them. I cursed him profusely and kinda lost control of my attitude. Until then, people were shocked...