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By Abdulkadir Rafiat                                                                                        "A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water". -Eleanor Roosevelt       I have always been intrigued by the character of women...How most of us men underestimate their power, strength and resourcefulness.Understand me here, 'not all females are women', but all women are females..."This is for women, not females"...        "These wonderful creatures of the Most High are indispensable"...We, men, cannot operate or function perfectly without them..."No man, except 'Adam', came to this world but through a woman!..."Only a woman can give birth to a child. There is no dispute over th...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat       A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because,they refused giving them sex,some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys                Let me be very blunt here...Virginity may not be the real reason why the guys go away, yes, no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they don't get it, they walk away...The problem may not be the virginity or the sex...    The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and the foolish were virgins; the other Five were not allowed seeing the bridegroom not because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity... NO! But because they were foolish and they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL . And the EXTRA OIL here is CHARACTER!     Most girls do not have extra oil to sustain any relationship, while many brag about their v...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat If you know Jam Jam, Tiwa Savage’s son, you sure know he is a cutie any time any day. Wearing a native agbada made by Tiannahsplaceempire, the Mavin records first lady says she’s blessed to have a son like Jamil. Read it below… Most handsome, I must have done something right to be blessed to be your mama ❤️ Thanks aunty @tiannahsplacempire for this

By Abdulkadir Rafiat       Instagram is one of the most popular and fastest growing social network at the moment. While many of us go on the platform to get entertained, there are actually a lot of people that makes a living off Instagram.        The main selling point on Instagram is your number of followers as well as interactions and many people cut corners in other to achieve this.Over the years, a lot of people have managed to grow their audience as well interactions artificially with the help of third party Apps. Instagram has however started cracking down on accounts with fake likes, follows and comments.      According to a blog post by Instagram, the social media giant announced that it has built machine learning tools to help identify and remove likes, follows and comments from inauthentic sources. Accounts using this services won’t be banned but will receive an in-app message;      “Accounts we ident...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat A Nigerian banker has killed himself after promising to write about surviving depression. Tolulope Abodunrin aka Don Tee took his own life according to his friend, Ogbeni Dipo. The incident has left family members and friends utterly devastated. It was gathered that the 2006 Accounting graduate of the University of Ilorin, who once revealed that he used to google about the fastest ways to commit suicide, took his own life on Wednesday, November, 21, 2018. Writing on Twitter, Dr. Dipo with the handle @OgbeniDipo shared the sad news: “I’ve just been informed of the death of Tolulope. He was reported to have taken his own life this week. May God forgive him of his sins and may he rest in perfect peace.”

By Abdulkadir Rafiat        The Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) has said that the ongoing strike by the union will continue until the federal government resolve all the issues in contention.        It also said it has rejected Babalakin who led the FG negotiation team. This stance is coming as the Union maintained that the first meeting held with the Minister of Labour and Productivity, Dr Chris Ngige has yet to go into substantive issues which led to the strike.         While speaking to newsmen after the Congress of the Union, chairman ASUU, University of Ibadan, Dr Deji Omole said ASUU members will not allow the ruling elite to destroy the heritage of the poor which is qualitative public varsity education. According to Omole, Wale Babalakin who is the leader of Federal Government team is being rejected by the Union because he is an interested party pursuing a private university license and  will do ev...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat Anita Ukah, emerged the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria for 2018, beating 36 other contestants at the glittering event held at Gabriel Okara Cultural Centre, Bayelsa State, in September after entering the competition as Miss Imo. The 23-year-old pretty young woman, who shrugged off competition from other finalists, told ADEDAYO ODULAJA how she deals with men coming her way and plans to represent Nigeria at the Miss World 2018 in China. When asked how she address approaches from men and wade them off, She replied” "I am not in a relationship. Of course, men come to me but I tell them to hold on. At present, I have other priorities and I am focused on achieving them. Also, I have not changed my set of friends since I won the MBGN pageant. My friends have been supportive from the onset and they are still supportive. They also understand that I cannot spend much time with them as I used to".

By Abdulkadir Rafiat As American reality star Blac Chyna gets ready to visit Lagos, Snapchat viral sensation Bobrisky has taken umbrage with Burna Boy’s criticism of the visit, blasting both Blac Chyna and Dencia who’s launching her line of whitening cream this weekend. Burna Boy had first reacted by saying the former Kardashian fiancee could come “and shake booty but leave her poison (the whitening cream) home”. Bobrisky, who makes no bone about his love for skin bleaching cream took offence and told a fan “Burna Boy can fall down and die”. See screenshots below:-

By Abdulkadir Rafiat    When Duncan Mighty prostrated for Davido during their chance meeting in Port-Harcourt few months back,  it generated a lot of mixed-feelings. While many criticized him for belittling himself before a 25-year-old  singer, who is his junior in the music business, others hailed him for giving honour to whom honour was   due.     But whatever be the case, Duncan Mighty’s music career unarguably was relaunched after the critical collaborations he did with some Nigerian superstars.The Port-Harcourt 1st son, acknowledged in an interview that everything changed after he released ‘Fake Love,’ featuring Wizkid. He also agreed that he got his groove back after the several collaborations he has done with top Nigerian artistes this year. Meanwhile, prostrating for Davido was Duncan Mighty’s way of showing his appreciation to the superstar who came all the way from Lagos to shoot music video with him in Port-Harcourt. The song, he belie...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat       A lady didn't seem to pay much attention to the rant of some 'friends' who caught her in an affair with her best friend's boyfriend.        A group of ladies have gathered to shame one of their own Mide who reportedly travelled from Ekiti State to sleep with her best friend's boyfriend in Ibadan.     To hide her relationship with the accomplice, she reportedly saved his name as  Ruka . According to a social media post, the best friend is also pregnant.       She appeared not to care much about the allegation made by her accusers. In a video, she busies herself with a mobile phone while a rant went on.

By Abdulkadir Rafiat                 The consequence of our modern lifestyle has forced many people to resort to unhealthy lifestyle and feeding habits, which are now frequently linked to the development of an increasing number of diseases like osteoporosis, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, respiratory infection, obesity, asthma, cancer, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, stroke and thyroid. According to Dr. Abiola is a Health and Fitness Expert, Individuals who adopt unhealthy food habits often rely on junk and fast food, much caffeine consumption, skipping breakfast, eating little fruits and vegetables or sticking to one meal a day. To avoid these unhealthy behaviours, it is wise to eat a variety of nutrient-rich foods like whole grains, fruits, vegetables, moderate food portions, regular meals at regular hours and make balanced food choice combined with 100% fruit juices. An intake of food balanced with essential nutrients ...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat When news went viral during the week that students of Babcock University held afro-pop singer, Kizz Daniel hostage for refusing to perform at an event organized by Babcock University Students’ Association, (BUSA), after receiving a performance fee of N3Million, many believed something was amiss. However, Kizz Daniel’s Publicist, Stephen Chibuzor, who spoke to  Showtime,  has set the records straight on the scandal. “Kizz Daniel had a booking with Babcock University Students’ Association, but they didn’t explicitly say the time he should be on ground. On that day he just returned from Dubai and there was no car to convey him from the airport to their school. They were aware he was to return from Dubai where he went for One Africa Music Fest, but probably thought not sending the usual artiste welfare rider was nothing. By the time they sorted out the transportation issue the show had ended. Kizz accepted to perform for N3Million, which is very low,...

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By Abdulkadir Rafiat  Actress Mercy Aigbe is one of the beautiful actresses Nollywood can boast of. The screen diva often stuns in beautiful fashion pieces that leaves many of her fans dazed. Recently, the Nollywood star wore an attire that got her the approval of many. The attire is a camouflage jumpsuit that fit her body perfectly. The outfit further looked graceful with the headband she wound around her body. Mercy shared the picture on Sunday and thus tagged it as a perfect casual outfit for the day. Many of her fans also thought so too. The Nollywood actress also posed with a bag that was both colourful and fashionable. According to her, she was dressed for the dinner occasion where she hoped to eat sea food. Furthermore, Mercy shared a picture of herself in the camouflage jumpsuit again. This time, she was with a phone. In the picture, the screen diva claimed to be a phone addict who could not bear to do without her phone. In her caption, she said: “I am su...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat  It was a moment of shock yesterday  21st of November as the ongoing convocation programme of Osun state university Osogbo was disrupted. According to a source that spoke with us, the action was pushed by the Non Academic staff Union (NASU), of the institution in protest to the management for owing them salaries and allowances of many months. The action is said not to be done by only the NASU as reports confirmed the ASUU and JACK movement joined them in the protest by unleash their concern to put on hold the ongoing convocation. Osun state university is a multi campus school with each of the six campuses is scheduled to have their convocation programme in the main campus this week. The event started on Wednesday  and continually, yesterday was another day. We are however not sure if it will hold today as the ground is scattered coutesy of the protest and no official reaction has been received from the management of the institution to cal...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat  TGIF guys,  How’re you doing today? I hope the week has been a joyful one all through? We have a relatively interesting topic to discuss today and it’s all about you choosing from a long list of the  world sweetest things  or tell us yours if it’s not part of the list. Every human has his own form of enjoyment and as such every body sweetest thing will vary!  Wetin sweet you fit bitter for another person life! Mine is number 2 (eating chocolate)  Checkout my own compiled list of sweet things in this world below;

Social Media Award Nigeria 2018: Actress Toyin Abraham Wins 'Most Sensational Female' Award The Nollywood actress, Toyin Abraham has won the award of the 'Most sensational female' in the social media award Nigeria 2018, she took it to her page writing "we won @socialmediaawardsng ���� Thanks to the organizers and huge thanks to my fans that voted... Thanks @salamirotimi for collecting on #TOYINTITANS behalf #TOYINTITANS from now on my name is TOYIN WORLDBEST TO WA SENSATIONAL"

By Abdulkadir Rafiat I’ve been in love once, my first and only love. When I was with him my world felt better with him, at least for a portion of our relationship. Then I noticed the direction we were going in changed, his plans didn’t match mine, especially for how young we were. He started becoming controlling, or maybe I just finally realized he was controlling and as much as it hurt me I had to let go.      After the tears had slowed down I started finding myself going for guys I had no business going for.  I started looking for love because I didn’t want to be alone. I would stay at my guy friend’s place so that I didn’t have to stay alone. I would look for and force connections that weren’t really there, and I’d spend so much time convincing myself I was happy, when I truly wasn’t.       I tried to tell my head and heart I didn’t miss my ex, I tried to tell myself things were better that way as I prayed no one would hear me crying i...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat  I wonder why it’s so easy for you to make promises while I stay and watch you break them. I wonder why it seems easy for you to distort the truths into lies while I stay and believe them. I wonder why it’s so easy for you to burn the bridge while I patiently build it for us to get there. And I wonder why it’s quite easy for you to change and turn like the coldest ice while I stay and give you the warmth of my love. I did stay. I always forgive you because I want things to work for both us no matter how messed up things are. I hold on so long because I still believe in  ‘us’  together. I hold on longer than I should because I still wish things might really change one day. I stand by you and keep you alive with my love in the midst of turbulence. I trusted you for so long, only to find out that you are nothing but a chauvinist. You taught me how to break the promises I was look...

By Abdulkadir Rafiat I’m really sorry I don’t love you enough, that I haven’t loved you enough. You’ve been through so much. I know that. You’ve been hurt your whole life, and a lot of the time that hurt has overshadowed any love you’ve received. I’m sorry it’s gotten to you this way. It’s just that hurt is one of the most ironic things, you know? No one wants to be hurt. It hurts to hurt. Whatever you are grieving the loss of- a lover, a friend, a version of yourself you never wanted to become- it’s draining. It starts out as an emotional wound and then becomes physical. This is when you stop eating because if you even think about it, you want to throw up. Or you eat to cope, to deal with the stress of everything. This is when your heart actually feels in pain; it’s not just a fluke. You start getting migraines from crying so hard. Your body is so tired from simply living and it’s the saddest thing you could ever see. So yeah, that hurt takes you over. It uses your emotion...

Dear ___________, For the most part, I’m writing to let you know that I’m OK. I can't believe you used to make me the happiest girl in the world and that you convinced me you were “the one." I didn't doubt you one bit, that I was so proud to tell my parents and friends about the wonderful guy I was with. But when you first want someone, you’ll do anything and everything to make sure you will have him or her in the palm of your hand, you had me fooled. Face it -- you were never there to support me and the effort was never reciprocated. You loved the fact that you had someone attached to your hip that you could control and take advantage of and the love they had to offer. I was trapped in your shadow hoping to satisfy your every want and need that I lost sight of who I was. I can’t thank you enough for doing what you did to me because I would’ve never realized how much of an amazing person I am. I did everything I could to make sure you wouldn’t leave, but it was ne...

        I believe you all are very familiar with issues like this if you’ve ever being in a relationship except say na “ Pay as you go ” na him you dey do 😂😂      Girls know how to beg their guy for something e specially asking for latest iPhone. As a guy, you might not be boxed up enough at that particular time. Nothing can be done than to beg her to cool down.       Most girls might get you frustrated  if you don’t get them the phone on time and might even  start misbehaving badly   to you except say the babe na understanding one.       Guys, now imagine this, you are yet to buy her the Phone and she comes to your house with a new  iPhone XS Max  or  iPhone X  claiming her dad or uncle bought it for her       As a guy, the first thing that will come to your mind is “ E be like say this babe don dey cheat on me ” Our Question  = If this happens ...

   By Abdulkadir Rafiat           I have never had a stable relationship  since my life any guy that approaches me for a relationship always turn me down and I am botherd because I am always a nice girl.       I love a guy the way I supposed to love him,i care for him, and I really don't know what else to do. At the start of the relationship, they treat me like a queen but along the line, they treat me the other way round.       There is someone I truly love and he knows I love him but I think he takes advantage of my feelings and I don't want to ever lose him.  What should I do?? I need your advice.  Anonymous 

      Mavin queen, Tiwa Savage, has revealed that she only looks beautiful by the help of make-ups and push-up bras.      The music star said that in spite of the glitz and glamour she displays on social media, she sometimes feels depressed by low self-esteem. Tiwa stated that sometimes she is intimidated by the glamour on social media. “I get a lot of messages from young girls who are depressed with low self-esteem because they don’t feel pretty like the social media girls they see every day and my heart breaks because I feel like that too sometimes.         “We are all in this together, I’m not perfect, and not the prettiest, sexiest, richest but I’ll remain kind and seek after God’s heart because none of the others matters to Him.        “Ultimately God’s approval is all we need”, she said. She added that contrary to public belief, she hardly sees herself as a pretty woman.       “Some people...

Chioma who has been spotted in several PDA sessions with her boyfriend, Davido has revealed that she met the singer while still in school. Chioma who reacted to a question by a fan on how she met Davido, said; I met him in school through a friend. My friend was dating his friend. This is coming after Punch reported that all efforts to obtain the admission status of Davido’s girlfriend, Chioma Rowland, from Babcock University proved abortive. This came after reports emerged recently that Chioma’s parents were unhappy that their daughter had decided to jeopardise her education, for a romance with Davido. It was alleged that she had dropped out of school following her struggle with her studies. When the school’s Director of Communications and Marketing, Joshua Suleiman was contacted, he said it was not possible for him to know every student in the school. He stated, “I don’t know the person; you know I cannot know every student. But I can give you the number of the stu...

17-year-old actress, Tito Segun-Banjo , has been declared missing by her family. In an interview, Tito’s mum, Wemimo Segun-Banjo, said her daughter who featured in Omoni Oboli’s Wives on Strike, the Revolution, left their home in Ipaja, Lagos state on Saturday November 17th to run some errands for her dad and has since not returned home. Efforts to reach her has failed as her phone is currently switched off. ”She left the house on Saturday to run errands for her dad and has since not returned home. I have tried reaching her but her number is not responding. I am afraid. Tito is a very bright girl who knows my number by heart and would have reached out to me using someone’s number if everything is okay. I am afraid” the mum said Tito’s mum says the case has been reported to the police in Alagolo, Ipaja. She said the police officers have asked them to pay some money before they can start investigating the matter. Mrs Segun-Banjo says Tito just completed her secondary sch...

Nigerian cross dresser Bobrisky, in an interview with Broadway TV said he doesn’t know if he’s still a guy because he has all the attributes of a female and he is more beautiful than most girls. He was asked whether at this stage, he identifies as male or female, he responded saying he is more beautiful than some ladies, he claims he has bigger breasts and buttocks than some women, so he gets confused whether he’s male or female. He said; “Even me I’m confused if I’m a guy, I’m finer than many girls so me I’m even confused sef. And I’m even growing boobs too, so you can see, plenty things, i even have ass sef, if I stand up now i have bum bum. So even me I’m confused if I’m a girl or a guy because i am way-way prettier than many ladies out there”