Open Letter to The Society - I'm not Virgin

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By Abdulkadir Rafiat




Dear Society,

Yes, I am someone who isn't virgin.
Yes, I am someone who had sex with someone I loved before.
Yes, I lost my virginity to someone who isn't in my life anymore.
Yes, I'm not "PURE" according to your opinion.

But my dear society, you know what... My middle finger salutes your opinion.

My virginity doesn't decide my purity. My virginity is not a level to decide I am pure or not.

Just because I had sex with someone I loved, it doesn't mean I can't be pure to someone else. The feelings need to be pure not my d*ck or vagi*a.
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So, what if I lost my virginity to someone who isn't in my life anymore?

That doesn't mean I have to be labelled as someone who can sex with anyone.

That doesn't mean I can't be loyal to someone I love again.

That doesn't mean I am characterless and I'm someone who's easily available for sex.
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I can start a new future with someone.
I can love someone again.
I can be someone's reason to smile again.
I can still be someone's forever.

I just need a right person to understand me. Someone who cares more about my love not my virginity.

Yours Sincerely,
Someone who isn't Virgin

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